My boss told me a girl threatened to quit because I was too aggressive, I hogged her jobs and I was mean. She said that I had ruined her whole weekend and that I made my life hell. Now, I work in a food service operation and speed and quality are job number one here! I am an experienced manager and member of the crew, so whenever I can speed things up, I take the opportunity. I know the girl is new, but I was not being mean to her at all! Now, I find a lot of people at work find me intimidating, but once they get to know me, they understand and like me. I can bully people at work, but only when they truly drive me up the wall with their stupidity and laziness, which is all too common with American kids. Perhaps it's the culture I come from, or my competitive attitude, but what's the deal? What do you think about me?

Last year, I was a victim of a well-known work bully. She is a boss, and she rules by instilling fear. Everyone at this place knows she is a bully. She picks out people, scrutinises them and puts them on a "development plan" which she monitors until she gets bored and gives up or gets rid of them. Last year, she gave me a lot of stress by scrutinizing me when I was having family problems (bereavement). She offered me counselling. All I needed was to be left alone for a bit but she made me think my job was on the line and gave me a development plan, which meant spending a lot of time with a "mentor" to deal with petty issues which I was more than capable of dealing with myself. She systematically picks off people and puts them onto such "development plans". She demeans people and humiliates them. The problem is, she does the big boss's dirty work for him. What can we do?!?

This is a guy at my work who I used to be friends with. Recently, he has been bullying me around verbally and physically. I have repeatedly asked him to stop but it doesn't even faze him. He tells the rest of the office that I am gay and always pushes me around or doesn't something to cause me pain. I would rather not take this matter to HR He is bigger and stronger than me. I'm scared of him because he is mean He is bigger and stronger than me. I'm scared of him because he is mean and the CEOs son.

I have been bullied at work. If I do something wrong he calls me names like 4 eyes, stupid, dumb,ect. I tell him to leave me along but he doesn't. Throws things at he, hits me, and pushes me. He runs when I step up to him after he does something. Supervisors are not around when he bullies me. I Think about fighting him but I don't want to get fired but if thats the only way I will. What should I do? Please help!!!

I bartend at a restaurant and there is a girl there who is rude to everyone including me. She always has some snotty comment and she thinks she is better than everyone. I really hate confrontation but I hate working with her and her rudeness. My blood starts to boil just seeing her there when I walk in the door. What should I do about the work b*tch?

At my job, there is a girl around my age that pushes me around a lot....... she'll tell me the way I'm doing a particular thing is dumb....... etc... I'm not a sissy and I don't back down or give into what she wants, but she is DRIVING ME CRAZY! The managers know and try to keep her away from me, but most of the time she finds a way to bully anyway...... what should I do? There isn't much the managers can do with her....... she's very mouthy and has a bad attitude most of the time...... she has 2 write ups alreay and has only been there 5 months........ I have been there only a week shy of that and have no write ups.......

A girl at work ( she is the owner/boss's daughter ). She is always finding something to pick on me or find something that I have made a mistake on. She really gets on my nerves. I cut my hair she cuts her hair, I get braces & she has to go get a mouth piece so that she doesn't grind her teeth at night & then she has to go get braces for her son. The other day at lunch I nelt down to get my lunch out of the refrigerator & she says very loudly " You need to tuck your tag in from your underwear because there could be a wierd man out on the road " The tag was hanging out but she could have said something to me descretly & not with her loud mouth!! I had changed the password on my computer & she couldn't get on my computer, ( which she has no reason to be on it ) well she tells me "My password is 23432 if you need to ever get on it. My password is not a secret" I just wanted to tell her to go F*** herself. OH SHE MAKES ME SO MAD!!! Give me some advise? Because I am thinking of quittin

there was a work function that some less popular people weren't excluded from, I dealt with this by sending out a mass sarcastic email. Now the bully has it out for me.

I have a friendship with a male at work (I am male) we often have a joke and a laugh regards light hearted subjects etc. On one occassion I pretended to throw a puch at him, but not in an aggresive manor and on another occassion I'd sent him an email stating he'd get a gold star for work he'd completed. But now he's accused me of bullying him and I've had to have a meeting to discuss. I am extreemly upset regarding this as I thought we were friends and it was just male banter. I have never bullyed anyone in my life and I am now very concerned. this is a total nightmare. Please help?

There's this woman at work who is one of those people who will make mistakes feel like your fault even though you did nothing wrong. She is constantly criticising me in a way that if I tell someone about it they would think that I was overreacting. How do I deal with a person like that?